the death of my baby


Being a mother is a wonderful gift for a woman. It is not excessive if a woman is willing to exchange all her blood and even her life to become a mother. I am a very lucky woman because in my life God gave me the opportunity to become a mother. With the presence of three children, my life seemed perfect.

Some time ago, God was kind enough to give me back a child. Beginning with signs of pregnancy, that day I will positively have more children. Honestly, I feel more panic than happiness. How come? My son who was aged one to three years. He can’t even walk. He is also still very dependent on milk. I was confused at that moment.  thought flashed through my mind. I thought about not continuing this pregnancy.With my husband, I visited a gynecologist in my city. Slowly I convey my concern about this pregnancy. The doctor just smiled while asking me to check the ultrasound. Slowly he moves ultrasound tool above my stomach. And that’s when my heart trembled violently when I heard my baby’s heartbeat. The doctor looked at me and said, is this the heartbeat that you want to stop? I mourn my evil intentions. God, I accept your gift with happiness.
Day after day I live during my pregnancy. I felt no complaints at all. My body is so healthy and ready to accept his presence. My other children are also very happy to look forward to the presence of their new sister. Even though my third child didn’t understand anything, he seemed to be happy. I enjoyed all the days with prospective baby. The heartbeat was soft when I lay my body down.
on that day. At that time my birth was exactly 6 months old. I felt a little tired because I was busy preparing a new school for my eldest child. My chest was a little tight, and the more worried I was, I had not felt the movement of the baby in my stomach for three days. I can’t feel the soft kick like usual. Finally, fearing that morning I visit a gynecologist. With my husband, I underwent several health tests. When the doctor does an ultrasound on my birth, I can hear his heartbeat again. Well … the sound is beautiful. But the doctor’s face is very different. He seemed to be very worried. I was then required to find a blood donor because my Hemoglobin was very low. Without being asked twice, I immediately entered the hospital to do a blood transfusion. Two days I lay in the hospital with needles stabbing my hand many times. I live everything patiently. For the sake of my heart.
On the third day, I asked the doctor to go home because I was feeling well. Apart from remembering my children at home, I was also not comfortable in the hospital. The doctor detained me to go home for another health test. With much hope, I obeyed his orders. That afternoon I asked my husband to clean my clothes to take home. Slowly nurse took me into the room to check. Again I underwent Ultra sonography. Slowly the doctor moved the cold device over my stomach. Then, staring into my eyes deep, the doctor said that my baby’s heart was getting weaker. Almost certainly my baby won’t be able to help. He is still too small to be born now. Doctors also detect abnormalities in my baby’s kidneys. It cannot produce amniotic fluid itself, so the amniotic fluid that protects it is increasingly depleted. I was very worried about my doctor’s explanation. I cried in my husband’s arms. The doctor asked me to wait until my baby’s heart really stopped, then I had to give birth. Half the soul is lost leaving a huge black hole.
Time runs very slowly. While continuing to pray for miracles to God, I returned to hospital treatment. Until the fourth day, the doctor confirmed that my baby’s heartbeat had stopped completely. I’m numb. I could no longer feel anything other than a huge loss. The crumbling of my body while undergoing an induction period is no longer felt. The world seemed to collapse for me. Six hours I had a very painful time in my life to get my baby out through an induction path. All the bones in my body seemed to be forced off. And finally, at 3 o’clock in the morning, I talked to the baby in my stomach. I said I was willing to be abandoned by him. Someday I would be reunited with him. I am sure of it. Then I felt something out of the way I was due. The tiny head of my baby came out, and my hand supported it. At that time the nurse and doctor were a little away from my bed. I took my baby while crying softly. And finally, my little baby is in my arms. He is so tiny. His face was very similar to his older brothers. Oh God, he smiled at me. Slowly I kissed his face and handed my baby to the doctor.

12 the wonder of colostrum

1. Colostrum is the first breast milk in the production of the breast during pregnancy. The body of pregnant women begins to produce colostrum at 3-4 months of gestation. But generally, the mothers do not realize they produce it except when the milk is leaking a little towards the end of pregnancy.
2. Colostrum is also the first milk out since the mother gave birth to the baby age 4-7 days. Can be a clear liquid, can also be golden yellow thick. The amount of colostrum is a little (150-300 cc per day) but great inability. This special milk is low in fat but high in carbohydrates and protein.
3. The composition of colostrum differs from breastmilk coming out on the 4th day of the 7th day to the 10th day of birth (transitional breastmilk), and also different from the milk that comes out after the 14th day (mature milk). Breast milk contains at least 100 ingredients that are not present in cow’s milk and can not be made in the laboratory.
4. Colostrum is rich in antibodies (body defense substances to fight foreign substances that enter the body) and immunoglobulin (immune substances to fight infectious diseases). Colostrum contains a large number of living cells, so colostrum can be considered the first natural vaccine that is 100% safe. Colostrum contains an antibody called secretory immunoglobulin A (SigA), which is a new substance for newborns.
When in the womb, the baby receives the benefit of another antibody called IgG, via the placenta. igG works through the baby’s circulatory system. However, SigA directly protects infants in areas where germs and infections are frequent, ie the mucous membranes of the throat, lungs, and gastrointestinal tract.
5. Colostrum contains immune body 10-17 times more than milk cooked. Functions include protecting the baby from diarrhea. Infants who were not breastfed would be likely to die from diarrhea 14.2 times higher than breastfed babies. It also decreases the likelihood of a baby getting ear infections, cough, runny nose, and allergies.
6. Colostrum also contains leukocytes (white blood cells) in high quantities, which can destroy bacteria and viruses that cause disease
7. Colostrum contains higher minerals especially potassium, sodium, and chloride. All three play a role in intestinal peristaltic movement (movement encourages food) and maintain fluid balance of cells.
8. Colostrum contains more fat-soluble vitamins and contains substances that can block the digestive tract hydrolyzing (decomposing) proteins. So the anti-infective substance that generally consists of protein is not damaged.
9. Colostrum is very easy to digest and is the perfect first food for babies. Therefore in the first days, it is advisable to breastfeed at least 9-12 times a day, more often better. This is so that babies get all the benefits of colostrum and also stimulate milk production. Frequent feedings will also help prevent spit up.
10. Colostrum has a laxative effect (urus-urus, laxative) that helps the baby remove meconium, the feces of early black-colored birth, and remove excess bilirubin so that the baby does not experience jaundice yellow.
11. Colostrum is produced when the baby’s body’s defense is the lowest. So to say, there is no replacement colostrum. Breastfeeding a baby with colostrum will provide a small antibody that is priceless, which helps the baby fight the disease in the first month of life.
12. If from the beginning the baby is fed colostrum, the mother’s breast will be stimulated to produce mature milk. The disease-fighting properties of breast milk do not diminish as colostrum tasks are completed. Because although breast milk is more dilute and antibody content decreases, the baby will balance it by sucking more milk.

Overcoming diaper rash in baby


Last week I took baby fa to the mall. Due to feeling bored silence at home continues, while the holiday is still long.

This is the first time baby fa go to the mall without father and sister. Before leaving I prepared all his belongings. Although a little nervous, I feel very happy. By using a casual shirt, I was holding baby fa and I did not bring a stroller. she enthusiastically once i took her out of the house.
I took a leisurely stroll from one shop to another in the mall. There’s really nothing I’ll buy. I just want to look around. But the final intention is only intentions. Only four of the stores I have entered have two bags of groceries.
All went well when baby fa fell asleep in my arms. But then when he woke up, he began to whine. Eventually, he cried loudly. Half panic, I took her to a special nursing room. I put him in a sleeping position there. Then I opened the diaper. And to my surprise, there are many red rashes around his crotch. That seemed to make him uncomfortable. Having never experienced anything like this, I am confused what to do.
Until then a friend told me about the diaper rash suffered by baby fa.
Here are recommended ways and I have tried on baby fa.
5 Ways to Overcome and Treat Baby Diaper Rash
1. Make sure the cleanliness of the diaper area.

Make sure to be clean of baby’s urine, stool (feces, dirt) and bacteria. Keep the parts affected by dry diaper rash, clean because if moist especially wet, the bacteria spread very quickly and diaper rash worse. If your baby takes out urine or dirt and you should immediately replace with a new diaper, try to clean urine and dirt with running water, do not rub the baby’s skin while cleaning the baby’s feces because it can cause the affected part of the rash more severe. Simply patted gently and gently, dried by gently tapping the affected skin with a soft cloth and make sure it is dry. Put a new diaper on first aired about 2 minutes.

2. Avoid using diapers of disposable diapers.
Use only if urgent and indispensable as traveling long distances, and try at home without diapers to get rash skin has space, drying, and blood flow to help speed the rash heal.
3. Change the brand of diapers
Change the type of diaper that is not good for baby’s skin. Try to use diapers made from soft without coloring and without other substances. Possible baby skin sensitive, easily irritated and allergic to certain types of diapers.


4. Use baby diaper rash ointment.
Lots of ointments and reams for special baby diaper rashes like Baby-dee, Myco-Z, Pigeon Baby Cream, Bepanthen, Switzal, Sebamed at the nearest pharmacy. Can also use wasp oil, heirloom jar ointment, coconut oil, virgin oil and olive oil.

5. Use Plain Yoghurt.
Plain Yoghurt contains acidophilus that is resistant to yeast infection and applies it to the area around the rash.

How To Quickly Eliminate Diaper Rash In Infants
If the rash does not heal after given the drug as above, then you can give the following treatment alternatives:

Use Oatmeal while bathing the baby. The way of mixing the Oatmeal


powder into the bath water, then baby bathing in it. The drug will effectively work against the baby’s rash.
Use Lavender oil, sandalwood oil, and Peppermint oil to be explained in the baby’s blisters.
Use aloe vera, use aloe vera gel and apply directly to the baby’s rash.
If the diaper rash gets worse, the rash spreads to the


arms, neck and other parts of the baby’s body and shows symptoms of blisters, spots and festering, then the parents should bring to the doctor. Usually, doctors will prescribe antifungal ointments that contain Clotrimazole and Fungiderm substances that function to combat fungus.

Breast pumping at work

Being a working mother certainly has many consequences. One is about how to go to work but still be able to provide breast milk to our baby. It’s no easy matter. It takes hard work and great patience. There are many things that we must prepare other than mental of course. Bringing milk pumping equipment is one way to solve the problem. Here are the things to watch out for to prepare.
First, the equipment consists of:
– Milk pump
– Plastic or bottle to store milk
– Ice in gel form
– Special bags that can withstand cold or heat
– Tissues
– Hand or antiseptic cleansing fluid
Second, how to pump breast milk
– Find a clean and closed place
– Wash hands thoroughly beforehand
– Take a relaxed position
– Put the pump on the breast properly
– Start pumping slowly but surely
– Imagine our cute baby’s face, it can make our milk come out swiftly.
Third, keep our pump results correctly
-know the milk in a special plastic
Close tightly
– If stored in a special bag along with ice gel, milk can last about 7 hours
– Immediately enter into our refrigerator freezer when it is home
Finally, how to provide breast milk that has been frozen in infants
– Put the frozen milk at room temperature
– We can use the microwave to warm up
– We can also soak it in hot water until the milk melts.
– Immediately give milk that has melted on the baby
By always pumping breast milk, we can calm down in working without having to worry about the baby we live at home. However, the provision of breast milk is very important for the baby’s growth and growth of intelligence. In addition to patients, mothers also need support from the work environment. A good working environment definitely provides an adequate place for nursing mothers.

Baby Jaundice

Do not panic if your doctor says your newborn is suffering from jaundice. Jaundice in newborns is a common condition. In a newborn, I do not think it works, can not bilirubin effectively. Bilirubin can form faster than the liver that can break it and the intestines can fit in the stool. Other times, babies urinate too much, give time to the intestine to reabsorb bilirubin. And the usual cases of bilirubin in the cells are released into the bloodstream, make too much with bilirubin and the cause of the buildup of bilirubin in the blood. One of these scenarios can cause jaundice.

As for the symptoms is Baby’s skin will develop with a yellowish color and he will look like sunbathing. Black babies will have a white color to the whites of their eyes. In certain cases, the baby can look very yellow very quickly! Infants with certain blood types (O-negative, O-positive, A-negative, B-negative, and AB-negative) typically have the type of blood they see when the anemic hemolytic anemia is much higher. Yellow discoloration of the skin and white eyes is a major symptom of jaundice. Your baby may also be more sleepy than usual.

Monitor your baby after 1 or 2 days of birth. You can diagnose jaundice in newborns by performing very simple tests. You want to go to the forehead or tip of your baby’s nose. If it appears white, you need not worry. If the yellowish color appears, it is time. Blood tests may be needed to ensure there is no specific cause for jaundice.

The cause of jaundice is an increase in bilirubin, a yellow pigment that naturally occurs in the body. Bilirubin is a common waste product. In the womb, the placenta does a proper waste job from the body. But after delivery, the liver secretes bilirubin from the blood while the intestine is excess bilirubin in the stool. Babies with high levels of chemical bilirubin in the blood and it may take around weeks for the liver to destroy it. Babies will not suffer any pain or discomfort due to this condition.

How to Tackle
Sun exposure will help break down the chemicals. If you are still in the hospital, the baby will be placed under a bright fluorescent light for certain; A few days of this treatment is enough and the yellowish tinge will fade. Sunbath mini maybe you may be asked to insert a crib near the window that gets maximum sunlight. Make sure you protect your baby’s eyes and positive direct sun exposure. Follow the exercises from your nanny.

If you’re at home, place as many babies during the day as possible (without clothes) – but be careful not to expose the baby to direct sunlight because he can suffer from sunburn.
Breastfeeding will also help make chemicals faster. The normal physiological jaundice in your baby does not need special care. A very important fluid intake. Breasts feed your baby according to 8-12 times a day.

When bilirubin is raised as it is released from cells into the bloodstream, this is usually a consequence of the destruction or death of red blood cells. All red blood cells age and die; it is a normal process. When this happens, the cells are split by the spleen. They release substances that have been stored in them, including bilirubin. About 1 percent of all red blood cells die every day, and after the first week of life, the body is equipped for this. In newborns, however, up to 5 or even 10 percent of red blood cells can be opened daily.
This thing happens when baby and mother have a different blood type. A mother can form antibodies against her baby’s blood, and these antibodies can cope against the baby, “attacking” it as foreign. This reaction is called Coombs’s positive hemolytic anemia. This is very important for high blood and high bilirubin released into the bloodstream. Since the liver is already working slowly, it takes a long time to remove all of this bilirubin from the blood.
If the symptoms persist after two weeks, it may be a sign of other complications and you should be with your doctor.